You Love Each Other—But This Isn’t Working.
You're tired of feeling like you’re on opposite teams.
Maybe it’s stepkid stuff.
Maybe it’s the ex.
Maybe it's the silence that creeps in when you’re both too drained to try
You love your partner.
But loving each other isn’t solving the problem.
And the resentment? It’s getting harder to ignore.
Let’s Call This What It Is:
A Stepfamily Stress Fracture.
Blending a family isn’t just “hard”—
It’s a minefield of invisible stressors that most couples aren’t prepared for.
Different parenting styles.
Kids who don’t warm up—or flat-out act out.
A high-conflict ex who hijacks your peace.
And a constant feeling that someone is always being left out.
It’s not just one issue. It’s the accumulation of misalignment.
And if you don’t name it and deal with it, it will erode the very thing you’re trying to protect: your relationship.
This Is Where Couples Coaching Comes In.
As a licensed therapist and stepmom coach, I work with couples inside blended families to help them:
Talk to each other without defensiveness, shutdown, or blame
Get on the same page about parenting, rules, and boundaries
Understand and validate each other’s very different experiences
Protect the relationship while dealing with a high-conflict bio mom
Stop the cycle of fights, apologies, and false peace
Learn how to support each other without losing yourselves in the mess
This isn’t therapy that rehashes childhoods.
It’s not basic communication tips you could find on Instagram.
This is real-time coaching and strategy that helps you shift dynamics—fast.
What You Can Expect:
We’ll work together over Zoom in live sessions where you both have the space to be honest, heard, and understood—while also being guided toward actionable change.
Some of the areas we’ll likely cover include:
Parenting Alignment
You’re not going to agree on everything—but we can create shared structure, clarity, and better conflict repair.Partner Communication
Learn to express needs clearly, hear hard feedback, and resolve fights faster.Stepfamily Stressors
From kid behavior to loyalty binds to the drama with the ex—we’ll break down what’s happening and how to handle it without destroying your connection.Boundary-Setting as a Team
Learn how to say “no” as a united front—even when it’s uncomfortable.Emotional Resilience & Support
Strengthen your capacity to stay present and connected, even when things get messy.
Here’s What You Get:
60-minute sessions via Zoom — offered weekly, biweekly, or on-demand
Flexible Scheduling — days, evenings, or lunchtime sessions
Post-Session Action Plans — emailed recaps with next steps
Access to Tools — supplemental video lessons, scripts, boundary templates, and self-regulation exercises you can actually use
Optional Add-Ons:
→ Text message support between sessions
→ Individual sessions for one or both of you if needed
→ Access to monthly stepmom support calls if she wants them
This Work Can Be Transformative—But Only If You Do It Together.
You don’t have to figure it out alone.
You don’t have to keep playing relationship referee.
You can move forward in a way that feels more connected, more peaceful, and more like a real partnership.
But it starts with a decision:
To stop spinning in the same cycle and start getting support that actually fits your life.
Let’s get you talking again.
Not just about logistics and kid stuff—but about what you both really need.
You deserve a relationship that thrives.
Even in a blended family.