do you need to break up?
…or do you just need a little help and the right tools to make things work better?
…or do you just need a fresh perspective and some new strategies to handle the tough stuff?
…or do you just need to learn how to communicate better and set healthy boundaries?
…or do you just need to focus more on your life outside of stepmom duties and finding balance in your life.
…or do you need community of stepmoms who understand and can support you?
I’m Jamie Simkins, and I’m here to talk about something that’s close to my heart: helping stepmoms who are desperate to see change.
Desperate to be heard and seen and appreciated. Desperate for some control. Desperate for some peace. Hungry for more connection and an ache to feel more alive…and not just like they’re getting through the days.
If any of that sounds like you, I want you to know that it doesn’t have to take a scary breakup conversation to get what you need as as stepmom.
And today, I am bringing you a no-frills, non-sugar-coated post about Rebel Stepmoms Academy - the program I created from the ashes of my own divorce to help other stepmoms get out of blended family hell…to avoid the mistakes I made so they can be the connected, unbothered, and at-peace stepmoms they long to be.
Today I am going to tell you more about how Rebel Stepmoms Academy came to be, who it’s for, what I’ve learned from creating it, and why I think you should apply.
How Rebel Stepmoms Academy Came to Be
When I first became a stepmom, I felt powerless and frustrated constantly. The kids’ biological mom was high-conflict, and my husband didn’t always back me up on parenting decisions. I worked so hard to make everyone happy, but it never seemed to be enough. I felt like a failure.
After years of family therapy, individual therapy, countless books, and even starting my own support group - our marriage still didn’t survive, and I was left feeling deeply guilty and broken.
One day, I decided that I was sick of keeping spoons frozen in the freezer to put on my swollen-from-crying eyes - I decided to take a different approach. I decided to invest in myself in a whole new way. I wanted to make sure I really healed and never made the same mistakes again should I fall in love with a man with kids again (which, being 39 at the time, chances were very high).
I invested in myself and hired two women’s empowerment coaches. I threw myself into personal growth and learned new tools and skills. I discovered things like how to separate other people’s actions from my worth and how to set boundaries.
🚨NON-SPOILER SPOILER ALERT🚨
I did fall in love again and yes he has kids. So that meant it was time for the rubber to meet the road. Would everything I learned really work in practice?
LONG STORY SHORT: Yes. Like, a lottttt. I’m in the most supportive relationship of my life. I get along with my stepkids and our relationship is growing every day. I am UNAFFECTED by the inevitable babymama drama and I feel so.f*cking.powerful and happy.
All because of my big BREAKTHROUGH. All because of ME and the things I learned and how I applied them in real-time to my own life.
That transformation became the foundation of Rebel Stepmoms Academy. Stepmoms need more than just advice. We need actionable tools, personalized guidance of someone IN THE TRENCHES WITH US, and a supportive community.
It’s the program I wish I’d had when I was struggling most or even when I first started out as a stepmom.
It’s my mission to help you achieve the same breakthrough without the years of struggle I went through. The Academy is designed to provide you with the tools, support, and community you need to transform your stepmom journey.
Who This Is For
Rebel Stepmoms Academy is for stepmoms who are ready to take control of their happiness, set healthy boundaries, and truly thrive. If you’re tired of feeling like you’re at the mercy of your stepkids’ bio mom or constantly battling with your partner over parenting differences, this program is for you. If you’re a stepmom who dreads transition days and feels guilty for having negative feelings about a stepchild, you’re in the right place. This program is designed to help you navigate these challenges and come out stronger on the other side.
A Behind-the-Scenes Peek into Rebel Stepmoms Academy
Creating Rebel Stepmoms Academy wasn’t just about putting together a series of lessons. It was about distilling my own journey and the insights I’ve gained over the years into a cohesive, actionable framework. I remember countless nights of jotting down ideas, crumpling up papers, and starting over because I wanted to get it just right. The goal was to create a program that wasn’t just theoretical, but deeply practical and immediately useful.
One of the key components of the Academy is the personalized guidance each stepmom receives. We start with a one-on-one assessment to understand your unique challenges and goals. From there, we create a customized pathway that outlines the specific steps you need to take, what lessons to watch, what to say when and to whom. This isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach; it’s tailored to your individual situation.
How Rebel Stepmoms Academy Transforms Your Life
Rebel Stepmoms Academy provides a supportive community, practical tools, and personalized guidance to transform your life.
By the time you leave, you will have:
Conversations that actually go somewhere
Better boundaries
Reactions you’re proud of
Deeper connections
Confidence & tools for dealing with the ex & the kids
Your inner-spark back
HOW you get those things in the program:
Supportive Community: You’ll join a sisterhood of stepmoms who get it. We support each other, share experiences, and celebrate victories together.
Practical Tools: You’ll get actionable tools to manage your unique challenges. From handling high-conflict bio moms to navigating stepkid dynamics, we’ve got you covered.
My Brain on Your Blended Family: You’ll receive customized guidance tailored to your specific situation in a number of different ways. We provide step-by-step instructions to help you succeed.
Weekly Coaching Calls: We have regular coaching calls to check in, stay on track, and get expert advice.
Unlimited Pocket Coaching via Voxer: Real-time support ensures that you’re never alone, even in your toughest moments.
Couples Coaching Sessions: You and your partner will have two sessions to get on the same page, reduce conflicts, and build a stronger relationship.
Imagine waking up each day feeling confident and empowered, knowing exactly how to handle any challenge that comes your way. Imagine enjoying harmonious relationships with your stepkids, feeling supported by your partner, and finding joy in every moment.
Picture yourself surrounded by a sisterhood of stepmoms who get it, who cheer you on, and who celebrate every victory with you.
More About Rebel Stepmoms Academy & Why You Should Join Us
Rebel Stepmoms Academy is the only program run by a coach who’s also a trained therapist and a stepmom. I chose the word “rebel” because we do things differently, recognizing the need for a radical shift.
With 13+ years of stepmom experience and 10+ years of clinical experience, I’ve poured everything I know about being a stepmom and everything I’ve been through into this program. There is nothing out there like it.
If you’re ready to take control of your happiness, set boundaries, and truly thrive, join us. The doors are open until Friday, June 28 and 6pm CT. Get signed up so I can properly welcome you – it’s going to be AWESOME!
If you’re ready to transform your stepmom journey, [click here to apply for Rebel Stepmoms Academy].
I can’t wait to welcome you into our amazing community. Remember, you deserve more than just survival; you deserve to thrive.
